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Hephaestion
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posted 26 April 2004 10:51 AM
I don't agree that "damn" is sanctioned. Even on television, they bleep the "god" but leave the "damned" alone. And an interesting observation one of my profs once made about "profane words," which — of course — vary from culture to culture. He pointed out that one can learn a lot about a culture by exactly what sort of word is considered "profane." For instance (forgive my spelling in advance; I don't speak or read French) he pointed to the preponderance of religion-themed words in Francophone Canada, such as "tabernac" or "sacremonde." Conversely, he thought it was noteworthy that a lot of English — as opposed to simply "Anglophone — curse words involved bodily functions or activities, or body parts: "fuck," "shit," "piss," etc. Of course, the English language, being the etymological "tart" that it is, cozies up to any old foreign words of filth and readily co-opts them as its own, provided they are accepted by enough of the English-speaking public. But if one is to study purely the "profane" words that spring from English/British tradition, I think that the prof. has a point (about the "bodily functions" thing). It seems to underscore how Ontarians are (traditionally, anyway) more hung up about matters of the body and sex than are Quebecers. Really, Michelle, I think this topic is worthy of a Canada Council grant and a subsequent Weighty Tome. Babblers might therefore be providing the ideal "intro. page" to such a volume. Thoughts? [ 26 April 2004: Message edited by: Hephaestion ]
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skdadl
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posted 26 April 2004 10:54 AM
Bloody hell, but I think that it would come as news to the British aristocracy, anyway, that there was something non-U about swearing. You're probably right, though, Michelle, that the upwardly mobile bourgeoisie have typically been self-conscious about talking nayce. If I swear, I'm truly angry, or startled. For some reason, I just can't swear authentically or cleverly otherwise. Some people can, though; I agree. Scout, for instance, breaks me up. I can hardly wait until she gets here and unleashes a string of expletives.
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bittersweet
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posted 26 April 2004 12:01 PM
Wasn't Shakespeare just a terrific swearist? And so liberal about it. How satisfying. I like to imagine how a character might express herself if she'd just banged her thumb with a hammer, had her taxi stolen, or spilled coffee on an important file, etc., depending on who she is. There's no faster way to get characters up and running in a first draft, especially if they're typically masked by stoicism or a keen sense of decorum. A person who doesn't swear when the right buttons are pushed is also interesting--because swearing often takes the place of doing something that could be even more harmful or embarrassing. It functions as a safety valve in the same way a kettle shrieks when the water's boiled. A character who swears a lot, and well (i.e., inventively), is terrific fun. To be any good, I think English Canadians generally have to work at it more than the Americans or the Brits. Perhaps we must have our thumbs hammered harder before we're ready to commit to an outburst. Of course, if guns enter the picture, then all the swearing in the world won't calm things down. Which is my theory of why the Americans, despite their relative ease with swearing, are nevertheless more violent than we are. The best thing for American society, therefore, is for their children to be taught to swear early, in order to compensate for their inevitable gun ownership later in life. I imagine that NRA members are among the most polite people on earth.
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Loony Bin
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posted 26 April 2004 12:27 PM
quote: A person who doesn't swear when the right buttons are pushed is also interesting--because swearing often takes the place of doing something that could be even more harmful or embarrassing.
I'm one of those who almost never swears. And I really mean (almost) never. Fer instance: I was working as a waitress at a place that sold those sizzling fajita platters, and I happened to touch the sizzling part with my thumb as I picked it up to take it out to the table. This was a pretty common occurrence around there, and the things were usually hot enough to melt the zynthetic napkins we were given to use as hot-mitts. Most of the servers swore like truckers at the drop of a hat, never mind when they'd actually burned themselves, but me, I said "Ow! Ow! Ow! That's really hot!!!". And everyone in the kitchen at the time just laughed at me. So evidently, while judicious and inventive use of cuss words can be humourous, so can be the omission of a cuss where one is expected. But I just never could make a swear sound reasonable coming out of my mouth. I sound crude and ugly when I swear, and that just doesn't really suit me at all. Even when I'm tremendously angry or anxious, I just hate the way the cusswords sound when I say them. And it's always a bit of a shock to my ears to hear one escape my lips. I prefer the goofy, childish alternatives like "cheese and rice!!!" or "fer fox creek!"...
From: solitary confinement | Registered: Feb 2004
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Scott Piatkowski
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posted 26 April 2004 01:40 PM
quote: Quebec, Ontario, and Manitoba Tenant Help on the Way? Not Really By Michelle (Post # 14) Fuck you, Meowful. I worked for minimum wage at a bakery for 4 years after I left grade 13 without graduating. I've never been on welfare in my life, although I did go on EI for maternity leave. And even when I worked for minimum wage, I didn't ... ideas, etc ... Swearing By Hinterland (Post # 23) I sort of agree with you, Tackaberry, but I have quite a few friends who never swear. They just don't. And they're very trustworthy. But they're not put off by swearing, and in fact, think it's really funny when I swear (...living ...
A new category of amusing thread titles: amusing juxtapositions.
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lonewolf
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posted 26 April 2004 02:07 PM
Swearing is legally acceptable.After, all, governments are sworn (IN) and then the electorate swears (AT them). Swearing is what freedom of speech is all about. Think of it as being immediately expressive in the moment. "You piss me off, asshole" gets the point across far faster than: "I object to your behaviour because ... But please understand YOU are not a bad person.... and you certainly have the right to your opinion ... and I can see your point of view but I cannot in all conscience agree with it ... and so on and on and on" Especially when the asshole just stepped on your face trying to get to the ATM before you...
From: Toronto, Ontario | Registered: Jun 2001
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Loony Bin
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posted 26 April 2004 02:22 PM
I guess I just never really feel like swearing is the most appropriate or accurate way to express myself.If I'm really angry at someone, it's one of very few possible scenarios. Either it's a friend of mine (or some person I have regular contact with) who's somehow crossed me, or it's someone I don't know and will never see again (or not likely to, anyways), and they're being an asshole in some way or another. In the former scenario, I find a lot of swearing or hurling of invectives is actually quite counter-productive, making the problem worse instead of better. Rather than just get in a screaming match, I usually try to get to the real problem, and talk it out so that people can get back to being civil with one another. In the latter scenario, there's not a whole lot of point in swearing at a person, cuz it's not going to make anything better, and actually has the potential to escalate an already poor situation into one that's much more volatile. I guess I'm just more interested in diffusing conflict, and saving myself from frustration and wasted energy than I am in proving my linguistic bravado with a string of curses. And I truly resent the idea that one who does not swear is somehow untrustworthy. That's just total bullshit.
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Mr. Magoo
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posted 26 April 2004 05:11 PM
Mr. Magoo Sr. is a construction worker from Quebec. As such I grew up listening to cussin' in both official languages, and had it explained to me that while English swearing is usually sex or bodily related, French swearing often seems to involve the Church.As a child, I was forbidden from swearing in the house, and in front of womenfolk (dad is a bit old school), but I was permitted to swear anytime I was fishing, even at a young age. My cousins and I would often make up for lost time, swearing like a stevedore with Tourette's for the duration of the fishing trip. Having parents who allowed me to bellow "Jesus fucking H. Christ on a crutch" every time I snagged a lure was considered pretty cool by my peer group.
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mighty brutus
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posted 26 April 2004 05:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by DrConway:
However, "loutish oaf" can be cooler to say than "arsehole", yes?
A couple of my favourites. Blackguard and jackanapes (see definitions below) 1black·guard Pronunciation: 'bla-g&rd, -"gärd; 'blak-"gärd Function: noun 1 obsolete : the kitchen servants of a household 2 a : a rude or unscrupulous person b : a person who uses foul or abusive language jack·a·napes Pronunciation: 'ja-k&-"nAps Function: noun Etymology: Middle English Jack Napis, nickname for William de la Pole died 1450 duke of Suffolk 1 : MONKEY, APE 2 a : an impudent or conceited fellow b : a saucy or mischievous child
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DrConway
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posted 26 April 2004 07:12 PM
It is quite confusing, since it is very sensitive to context: In one sentence it can mean "to allow" and in the next, "to forbid".An example - "I cannot sanction the use of this axe. The sanctions must be placed on Iraq."
From: You shall not side with the great against the powerless. | Registered: May 2001
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Kevin
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posted 27 April 2004 01:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Zoot Capri: I had an acting coach who taught me to speak with a Newfoundland accent like this:Say "Whale; oil; beef; hooked" slowly. Say it again, faster. Then faster, running the words to gether.
That's funny. I just met a couple of Newfoundlanders and they are funny too! Québécois swearing is interesting too.
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dnuttall
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posted 29 April 2004 10:09 AM
I learned cussing from my dad (who grew up in Gananoque). Only one word, granted:Wuh. It could be used as a completely free-form cuss word, without any requirement for explaination. "Oh, what a hard day I've had" can be said succinctly as "Wuh" "Wow, look at that stunningly beautiful woman", also "Wuh!" "I have just skinned my knuckles while succeeding to shear off the bolt I was trying to remove, and now I will need to extract that in some complicated, difficult way", becomes "Wuh! Wuh! Wuh! ah shit..." Its use was usually in the singular, with as much emotion and bile loaded into it as required. Occasionally, multiple expressions of it would be required, but they were few and far between.
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Loony Bin
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posted 29 April 2004 10:37 AM
I learned my first cusses from my Opa, and they were mostly in dutch. I won't try to type them here, since I have no idea how to spell them, but my Opa thought it was pretty funny to hear little me, at 5 or 6, swearing in dutch, so he never told me I was being rude. I'd follow him around on the farm, and pretty much mimic him all day (when I wasn't distracted with some chicks or baby goats or something). One day we were standing in the driveway talking to some old friend of his, and Duke, Opa's natty old dog came limping over and the friend made some passing comment about him. I said, "yeah, that Duke, he's a real old bastard". The way they both laughed so hard at that was the first real indication to me that I'd said something out of sorts. And then, of course, I got a real kick out of repeating the story to my mom, and my Oma, and whoever would listen, just to see what sorta reaction they'd have. I still like telling the story. My sister's favourite story to tell (about cussing), is the one where supposedly I was choking her in the living room and she yelled at me to "let go of [her] damn neck!!", and mom heard from the kitchen, and she got in trouble for saying damn. She's still bitter about it.
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