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jrose
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posted 13 May 2008 09:09 AM      Profile for jrose     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
This story has been all over the media this week, but I can't seem to find if it's been posted on babble. If it has, I give the other moderators permission to close it up, and to ridicule me endlessly.

Parents should have right to ignore doctors, seek alternative care: bioethicists

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A decision to forcibly impose chemotherapy on an 11-year-old Hamilton boy who didn't want to go through another round of painful treatment was "heavy-handed" and "worrisome" considering how often similar conflicts arise, several bioethicists said Monday.

The boy, who cannot be named because he is now in the care of the Children's Aid Society, has been thrust into the thorny debate over the right to seek alternative therapies and ignore conventional wisdom.

He was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia when he was seven. After enduring the tough experience of chemotherapy his cancer went into remission, but returned earlier this year.

After being told last week he needed more chemo he refused to go through the ordeal again. He took that position even though doctors said he'd have only six months to live without the therapy, while treatment would give him a 50 per cent of fighting off the cancer.

The boy's family supported his decision and was ready to try some alternative therapies at home, but doctors insisted he go through chemotherapy again. A judge ruled that the boy cannot make an informed decision and he was put into CAS care to ensure he get chemo.


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posted 13 May 2008 09:19 AM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
If it looked like he was going to die no matter what, then I'd support the decision for him to go home. But he has a 50 percent chance of being cured by taking chemo? As opposed to some sort of alternative quackery? I can't really blame the doctors for trying. And I don't think 11 years old is old enough to understand the consequences of the decision. Kids that age still see things in terms of the immediate.

On the other hand, chemo IS painful and horrid. But on balance, I don't think it's so awful to warrant letting a child decide against it when there's a half-and-half chance of being cured by it.

Taking the child away from his family is reprehensible, though. Surely they could find a way to enforce the decision without him out of his home. That's just wrong. He's going to need his parents' love more than ever as he goes through another round of chemo.

[ 13 May 2008: Message edited by: Michelle ]


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posted 13 May 2008 09:27 AM      Profile for Catchfire   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Well, presumably, the doctors have taken the child's well-being and comfort as well as his survival chance into account before making their diagnosis. I would support an adult making a decision to forego chemo, but a child, as the courts ruled, does not have the faculty to make such a decision.

I'm also suspicious of 'bioethicists' when invoked generally. Are they doctors? Do they have any medical background? What makes them think they are justified in commenting on this specific case?


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jas
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posted 13 May 2008 09:57 AM      Profile for jas     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I don't think anyone has any right to force anyone into treatment they don't want to do. I'm a little shocked at the responses here. What happened to a woman's right to make her own decisions about her own body? Does this right become null and void if it's a child making his or her own decision? Explain that to me please.

I could tell you a story about what you call "alternative quackery", but you probably wouldn't believe it anyway.


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posted 13 May 2008 10:26 AM      Profile for M. Spector   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by jas:
I don't think anyone has any right to force anyone into treatment they don't want to do.
Children don't have the legal right to refuse or consent to treatment; their parents and guardians have that right. If parents withhold necessary medical treatment (such as a life-saving blood transfusion) the courts have always been able to step in and overrule the parents in the best interests of the child. Those decisions are usually not made lightly, however.

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posted 13 May 2008 10:27 AM      Profile for N.Beltov   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Are you guys forgetting that Canadian courts ruled that the late Sue Rodriguez was not even entitled to decide upon her own death? The state intervenes all the time and has an "interest" that it vigorously defends.

Anyway, there is another recent case in which Winnipeg Medical Ethicist Arthur Schafer made a few public remarks. In that case, dated last July in Quebec, a 3-year-old boy was not compelled to proceed with chemotherapy "after his parents said they would prefer he had alternative medicine". The details are important here: the boy's condition was not viewed as life-threatening:

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Arthur Schafer, University of Manitoba, told CTV's Canada AM that the province did not intervene because the child's condition is not currently life threatening. If medical experts had told the courts it was a medical emergency their response would have been different.

According to the boy's mother, his condition has improved since he started the alternative treatment. She stressed that she would seek chemotherapy again if her child's condition got worse.


Boy Can Have Alternative Medicine Instead Of Chemotherapy, Quebec

I couldn't leave the following alone without comment ...

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Catchfire: I'm also suspicious of 'bioethicists' when invoked generally. Are they doctors? Do they have any medical background? What makes them think they are justified in commenting on this specific case?

They have special training in thinking about such issues. Arthur Schafer is a fine example of a Canadian bio-ethicist. Check out his piece on panhandling (panhandling.pdf), on Biomedical conflicts of interest (Biomedical_conflicts_of_interest.pdf), on the good death (good death.pdf), on assisted suicide, and so on.

ethics downloads


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posted 13 May 2008 10:34 AM      Profile for jas     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Well, I think that some Babblers need to perhaps contemplate their pro-choice stance in the context of the broader human spectrum. I don't think it's a convincing or valid position to be pro-choice in some contexts, and anti-choice in others.
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posted 13 May 2008 10:36 AM      Profile for M. Spector   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I'm in favour of the right to vote.

But not for 11-year-olds.


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jas
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posted 13 May 2008 10:38 AM      Profile for jas     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Yeah, and that's totally the same thing as making a decision about your own body
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There is a world of difference between an 11 year refusing treatment that could save his life and women who chose to have abortions. Frankly, I do not really appreciate this being thrown in our faces as an analogy to the anti-abortion crowd. Seriously.

I personally believe the boy should be able to decide his own fate re: medical options. I think it is horrible that they have pulled him away from his family. On the other hand, I can see that this boy has a 50 percent chance of chemo working. That's a rather good chance and I do not think an 11 year old has the mental capacity to decide this.

Let me pose something to you then, along the same lines as you re: women's right to choose.

Since you are of the opinion that the boy has a right to decide his fate (BTW, anorexics don't for the most part. But that is another story) and that he is old enough and mature enough to understand the implications of no treatment, can I also assume that you think 11 year olds are old enough to stand trial as adults when they commit crimes?

You see how silly analogies are here? And how offensive it is?


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jas
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posted 13 May 2008 10:50 AM      Profile for jas     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
You know, this now is what I've been talking about, the danger of people putting such uninformed faith in science, (the new God), that they automatically give up their own autonomy, and insist, by law, that others do as well, because "science" knows so much more about your own body than even you do. Isn't that right?

I shudder to think of what kind of a future people who think this way are going to create not just for themselves, but because they can't leave other people alone, for everyone else, as well.


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posted 13 May 2008 10:53 AM      Profile for jas     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Stargazer:
There is a world of difference between an 11 year refusing treatment that could save his life and women who chose to have abortions.

What's the world of difference? I'm all ears.


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quote:
Originally posted by jas:
Yeah, and that's totally the same thing as making a decision about your own body
Aren't you the one saying we shouldn't make distinctions based on "context" when it comes to "choice"?
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I don't think it's a convincing or valid position to be pro-choice in some contexts, and anti-choice in others.
ETA:
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What's the world of difference?

[ 13 May 2008: Message edited by: M. Spector ]


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posted 13 May 2008 10:58 AM      Profile for oldgoat     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
In Ontario, and probably other provinces also as these things tend to be pretty uniform, a person can consent to or refuse treatment at age 12.

I saw an interview with the kid's dad this morning. If what he says is accurate, the best case scenario would buy him a few years, but at considerable cost to quality of life. His quality of life with the chemotherapy right now is pretty miserable.


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posted 13 May 2008 11:18 AM      Profile for jas     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by M. Spector:
Aren't you the one saying we shouldn't make distinctions based on "context" when it comes to "choice"?

Sorry you need this spelled out for you: I am talking about the right to make decisions about one's own life and body, not about the right to choose political representation.


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posted 13 May 2008 11:41 AM      Profile for Jacob Two-Two     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
People seem to be operating on the automatic assumption that the child couldn't possibly be cured by alternative means. In fact, there is very little research in the west to prove or disprove the effectiveness of various alternative treatments, while the only country to ever conduct such research in any depth (China) has produced very positive results.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not against chemo by any means. My little nephew is currently going through it to cure his lukemia and it has all gone very well. Still, if the child's parents have supported his decision to try other means, there is no reason whatsoever to equate this with a death sentence. If the state can point to a strong body of evidence that clearly discredits the treatments they want to take, then a case could be made for intervention in the child's best interests. Without this, all we have is fascist meddling based on irrational prejudice. They have no right to decide that these parents are threatening their child's life with no evidence to back them up, based on "conventional wisdom". We all know how reliable that can be. Decisions like this lead to a very bad place indeed.


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posted 13 May 2008 11:52 AM      Profile for Catchfire   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by N. Beltov:They have special training in thinking about such issues. Arthur Schafer is a fine example of a Canadian bio-ethicist. Check out his piece on panhandling (panhandling.pdf), on Biomedical conflicts of interest (Biomedical_conflicts_of_interest.pdf), on the good death (good death.pdf), on assisted suicide, and so on.

You're absolutely right, I was too hasty. I responded before I finished the article and read that the bioethicists were named. But my questions weren't rhetorical: I wanted to know why they felt they could comment on this specific issue at this time, rather than try to influence policy in general.


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posted 13 May 2008 11:57 AM      Profile for M. Spector   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by jas:
I am talking about the right to make decisions about one's own life and body, not about the right to choose political representation.
Well Duh! But Choice is choice, right? Regardless of the context - you said so yourself.

Now, if 11-year-olds are not considered legally competent to do something as harmless as put a ballot in a box, why would they be considered capable of making informed and reasoned choices about something as serious as their own medical treatment?


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posted 13 May 2008 11:59 AM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by jas:
What happened to a woman's right to make her own decisions about her own body? Does this right become null and void if it's a child making his or her own decision? Explain that to me please.

Sure. Women aren't children. Apples and oranges.


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posted 13 May 2008 12:01 PM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by jas:
Well, I think that some Babblers need to perhaps contemplate their pro-choice stance in the context of the broader human spectrum. I don't think it's a convincing or valid position to be pro-choice in some contexts, and anti-choice in others.

Women aren't children. Women aren't children. Women aren't children. Women aren't children.

If it was a woman who had the choice of whether to go through with chemo or not, she could choose not to, and the state would not interfere.

In this case, it is a child. Not a woman.

Women aren't children. It's not the same.

Women aren't children.


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Why can't a child choose for him or herself what he or she has done to his or her body?
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All this is besides the point. It isn't the child's decision. It's the parent's decision and they made the decision to support what their child wanted. The question is does the state have the right to overrule them. I say absolutely not. The burden of evidence here has to be on the state and it must be a heavy burden indeed. They don't even come close to meeting it.
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posted 13 May 2008 12:05 PM      Profile for Scout     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Because children aren't great with understanding consquences and what forever really means.
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posted 13 May 2008 12:06 PM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
The same reason they can't choose their bedtime. The same reason they can't choose whether or not to go to school. The same reason they can't vote. The same reason they can't drive a car. The same reason they can't choose to eat twinkies all day long. The same reason they can't decide custody cases.

They aren't old enough to make adult decisions. Because they're children.


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posted 13 May 2008 12:06 PM      Profile for M. Spector   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Jacob Two-Two:
The question is does the state have the right to overrule them. I say absolutely not.
Do you mean "in this case" or are you speaking generally?

Because if it's the latter, I strongly disagree.

If it's the former, I don't know the particular facts well enough to allow me to second-guess the authorities. Do you?


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posted 13 May 2008 12:07 PM      Profile for Michelle   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Jacob Two-Two:
All this is besides the point. It isn't the child's decision. It's the parent's decision and they made the decision to support what their child wanted. The question is does the state have the right to overrule them. I say absolutely not. The burden of evidence here has to be on the state and it must be a heavy burden indeed. They don't even come close to meeting it.

So then, you think Jehovah's Witnesses should have the right to kill their kids by not letting them get lifesaving blood transfusions when necessary?


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An 11-year-old doesn't understand what death is? (And an adult does?) Doesn't understand what the potential consequences of stopping treatment might be? An 11-year-old is allowed to say 'no' to an adult molesting him or her, but can't say 'no' to invasive chemical intervention?
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A four year-old is allowed to say no to an adult molesting them. Hell, a two year-old is allowed to do that too. What does that have to do with anything?

Are you saying that chemotherapy is equivalent to molesting children?


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I think she's saying abortion is like child molesting, wait, I can't really tell. I don't know which goal posts I am aimming for anymore.
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quote:
Originally posted by Michelle:
Are you saying that chemotherapy is equivalent to molesting children?

I'm saying that a child of a certain age has a right to make a decision about his or her own body and what medical interventions he or she is comfortable with. A child has a right to make good, or bad, decisions ETA: about his or her own life and body. And I'm certainly glad the parents support him in this.

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quote:
Originally posted by jas:
I'm saying that a child of a certain age has a right to make a decision about his or her own body and what medical interventions he or she is comfortable with.

And you compared that with a child having the right to decide not to be molested. You're claiming that a child of a certain age has a right to make a decision about medical care and you compare that to a child's right to say no to being molested.

So, does this mean that only children of a certain age have the right to say no to being molested? Or was that just a really bad analogy?

Does a six year-old have the right to decide for himself against going to the dentist? No? He doesn't? Well, does that mean he also doesn't have the right to say no to being molested?

It's exactly the same thing, right? A six year-old not wanting to go to the dentist and a six year-old not wanting to be molested are the same thing, right?

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M. Spector, I have a bone to pick with you, too. But I'll pick it in another thread.
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Pick away
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quote:
Do you mean "in this case" or are you speaking generally?

I mean in this case. Obviously there are cases where intervention is necessary, but what should be burden of proof be? The consequences of allowing the state to overrule parent's decisions for their children without just cause would be disastrous both on the personal level and for society at large. So what should constitute just cause?

In this case, we have parents abandoning a treatment that has been shown to have a degree of effectiveness, to pursue other treatments that nobody has ever proven to be effective or ineffective. Is this sufficient to decide that the state should intervene? It would be one thing if the treatments they were pursuing had been shown clinically to be useless, but as I said above, this is not the case. There has been no serious scientific inquiry into the effectiveness of the more prominent alternative cancer treatments. Who can say that the child will not be cured by these methods? By what right does the state decide this, with no scientific evidence to back them up? Basically, some judge is saying, "I don't personally believe in what you're doing. I have no clear reason not to but I don't, so I'm taking your kids away." Is this how we want the state to deal with parents?


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Michelle, this isn't a six-year-old, he is eleven. Almost an adolescent. And if he were a she, if a bit precocious, could become pregnant, if more average, in a year or two. Surely you don't think parents should be able to prevent a teenaged girl from having an abortion - or teenagers male or female having access to contraceptive measures?

Chemotherapy is horrific. Probably worth it if it can save a life or extend it significantly (in terms of a life that is not just torture). Outcomes are better now than a generation ago, but it depends on the cancer. (I'm also thinking of what friends with AIDS had to go through).

But there is also so much crap about heroism, I'd much rather die - say my life has ended there (not that I want to die by any means) than spend years living in torture, mutilated or with a severely-reduced quality of life. Others might take a different decision, but it is my bloody life.


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I wonder how many of the people who think 11-year-olds can give informed consent or refusal to their own medical treatment are among those who believe that 14 year olds are too young to consent to sex?
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quote:
Originally posted by Michelle:

Does a six year-old have the right to decide for himself against going to the dentist? No? He doesn't?

He doesn't? If a kid doesn't want to go to the dentist and his parents support that decision, will there be any consequences? This is getting pretty surreal.

This isn't about the child's right to decide, it's about the parents right to decide for their child. Who should make the decision here, the parents or the authorities?


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Guess what?

Children are not the private property of their parents, to do with as they wish without consequences.

We have something called child welfare laws.

If parents persist in making bad decisions about the welfare of a child, the latter may be declared a child in need of protection, and the state steps in, usually in the form of its delegated Children's Aid Society, and subject to the direction of the courts.

You have a problem with that?


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quote:
Originally posted by wage zombie:

This isn't about the child's right to decide, it's about the parents right to decide for their child. Who should make the decision here, the parents or the authorities?


Well, I think the bio-ethicists are suggesting, as am I, that it is about the child having some say in whether or not or what kind of treatment to undergo, especially, as the article points out, already having had experience with that treatment.

We would probably be having a slightly different conversation if it was the parents either refusing treatment on behalf of the child, or, conversely, forcing the child into treatment.


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Michelle, this isn't a six-year-old, he is eleven. Almost an adolescent.

That's not the point I was making. It was claimed by jas that a child saying no to medical treatment is the same thing as a child saying no to being sexually molested.

Which is absolute and utter horseshit, and I was demonstrating why. Because a child of ANY age has a right to say no to being sexually molested. But a child of any age does not have a right to say no to medical treatment (like going to the dentist, going to the doctor, getting vaccinated, whatever). Because medical treatment is NOT analogous to being sexually molested. The suggestion is abhorrent and offensive.

Jas said that a child "of a certain age" has the right to say no to medical treatment. Then she compared that to the right to say no to being sexually molested. So what I'm asking her is, if those two things are comparable, then does that mean a child of six years old, who I think most people can agree do not have the right to say no to basic medical treatment (like going to the dentist, going to the doctor, etc.), also not have the right to say no to being sexually molested?

Or, if we want to continue this analogy and say that parents have the absolute right to decide for their children about medical treatment for children under a certain age, then does that mean that parents have the absolute right to decide whether or not their child will be sexually molested too?

My point is, it's a ridiculous analogy. And offensive.

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He doesn't? If a kid doesn't want to go to the dentist and his parents support that decision, will there be any consequences? This is getting pretty surreal.

Okay, follow along here, folks. I mentioned the example of the six year old not to be an analogy to the 11 year-old refusing treatment, but in discussion of the side issue that jas raised, about whether medical treatment is the same thing as sexual molestation.

The only reason I brought up the six year-old being forced against his will to go to the dentist is because I was comparing it to a six year-old being forced against his will to being sexually molested.

The point is, a six year-old CAN be legally forced against his will (by his parents) to go to the dentist. A six year-old CANNOT be legally forced against his will BY ANYONE to be sexually molested.

That's the only reason I brought up the six year-old and the dentist. To show that saying that forcing a child to undergo medical treatment he or she doesn't want is NOT the same as forcing a child to be sexually molested, no matter what the age of the child.


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And you know what? I think any parent of a child who said, "Oh well, my child doesn't LIKE brushing his teeth, and doesn't WANT to go to the dentist, so we're not going to make her do either of them," and let the kid's teeth rot, get tons of cavities, etc. and refuse to get the problem treated, IS being neglectful to the point of abuse, and at that point it probably IS time for someone to step in and say, "Hey, Mom and Dad. We're going to step in because you're a couple of morons."
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Our oldest son is 11 so this issue has given me pause to think. As one of his parents, I often tell him to do things he doesn't want to do. Sometimes we try to negotiate a resolution. The state does not recognize our 11 year old as being old enough to make major life decisions and therefore vests that authority in his parents. The state also places restrictions on how parents can exercise that authority usually by legislating what is not permissible.

As medical advances allow us to extend life, it often seems that the extension of life has become some sort of prime directive. If life can be extended then life must be extended. We allow indivduals who are deemed compis mentis to choose to disregard this "imperative." The issue is more complex when we are dealing with minors. Although parents usually make decisions for minors, parents are prohibited by the state from making decisions that harm children. If the state accepts that the prolongation of life is an imperative, it will step into to prevent parents from declining to take steps to prolong their child's life.

An interesting issue is the behaviour of doctors in this situation. Doctors normally recommend treatment that can be rejected by adult patients. Doctors do not go to the courts to force an adult patient to undergo treatment. In this case doctors are petitioning the state to require treatment of a child against the parents' wishes and as reported against the child's wishes. Are the doctors operating in the interests of the state in these cases when they are seeking to enforce what they consider the best treatment options?

It is a very complex issue.


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It's a hard case, especially considering how painful chemo can be, and the fact that, while we're being told that the chemo could be 50% successful, the question is, what does success mean? Full cure? Remission until the next time it recurs? Is it just more pain to stay sick and have to do it all over again the next time?

And I don't necessarily think that doctors always know best when it comes to decisions that involve not only saving life but quality of the life that's being saved. In this case, the age of the child, the painfulness of the treatments, and the iffy prognosis make this particular case not very cut-and-dried.

But I think the principle of children being allowed to refuse treatment and the parents being allowed to allow them to do so is one that should not be automatically accepted. There are always going to be borderline cases like this one. But in principle, parents should not have the absolute right to refuse medical intervention on their child's behalf.


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May 14, 2008 04:30 AM
Parents agree to accept court-ordered treatment

The boy, who cannot be named because he is in the care of the Children's Aid Society, could finish his first round of chemotherapy this week and be home by Saturday or Sunday.

Before yesterday's hearing, the father said his son's spirit had been broken and his family was worried he'd get even weaker if he doesn't regain the will to fight his leukemia.

The man said his son is despondent, run down and wants to go home.

(snip)

The father lost custody to the Children's Aid Society after trying to fight for his son's wishes. But the boy has now given up fighting, his father said. He likened his son to a tortured prisoner willing to say anything to be released.

"All he ever says is, 'I just want to go home.' Now he's agreeing to everything and anything as long as you let him go to be free," he said.

The boy is surrounded in his hospital room by security guards and Children's Aid and youth-protection workers, the father said.

"He's a little prisoner. He can't leave his room or anything ...

"We told him, 'Don't worry buddy, please try to be healthy, relax, relax, relax, relax,' and he even said to me, 'I don't care. They can even kill me with their chemo and stuff I don't care, as long as I can come home and be home with you and mommy.' "


11 year old at centre of chemo fight going home: theStar.com


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(from the original article in the first post) Although it's a complicating factor that the boy has fetal alcohol syndrome and takes special education classes, Leier* said the boy is still capable of understanding what more chemotherapy would do to him.

"He understands what it feels like to have chemo, he understands what it is to go through that and have all the ill-health effects and it's very difficult to argue that anymore intellectual capacity would enhance his judgment," he said.


Leier raises the question about the role of the will in recovery; at what point does the unwillingness of the patient to go through a forced treatment regimen undermine that treatment?

* Brendan Leier: a clinical ethicist with the University of Alberta


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The last two posts really show what we're talking about here.

and in this:

quote:
Originally posted by Michelle:
But I think the principle of children being allowed to refuse treatment and the parents being allowed to allow them to do so is one that should not be automatically accepted. There are always going to be borderline cases like this one. But in principle, parents should not have the absolute right to refuse medical intervention on their child's behalf.

I can agree with you almost completely.

I'm pretty sure you understand that I'm not saying that medical treatment is the same as sexual molestation. I'm pretty sure you understood that from my first post.

From a child's perspective however, both of these can be seen as invasive, as breaking an important boundary that we teach our children to establish for themselves. In the former, the intention is good, but the results may not be. So, you have a treatment that is forced on a child, hypothetically, that the child didn't want in the second place (in this case, having already gone through it) and that may not produce the desired results in the end. In this case, you have the parents also saying, yes, we also don't want our child to go through that again. We support his decision.

What is so reprehensible about this? You would give the state the right to overrule both parties? That's what I don't understand. That is a very frightening prospect in my view.


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But we don't teach our children that they can establish absolute boundaries with regard to medical or health treatments for themselves.

Otherwise, my son would never brush his teeth or visit a dentist again.

We do, however, teach our children that they are completely in charge of their sexual boundaries and that no one can violate those against their will.


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A medical treatment that compromises your entire body's ability to cope with everyday life is not the same as having a tooth filled. OK? You're offended by my analogy, but yours is not much better.
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The point is, it is generally accepted that children do not make their own decisions when it comes to their health and medical treatment. It's merely the age of emancipation we're debating here. We do, however, tell them that they can and should say no to any sexual advances, at any age.
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OK. So, sexual advances, NO.

Invasive and horrendous chemical treatment with dubious life-saving results, YES.

So we're clear now on where you stand. Got it.


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What a difficult thread. Any analogies along the lines of committing crimes against children by sexual crimes and this instance are initially very troubling. As well as juxpositioning it with females choosing not to carry a fetus. The only close compare is refusal to give a child a blood transfusion and it is not even a suitable one.

However, these types of medical interventions really need to be discussed whether or not it is refusal, or overly extended couses of treatment that are not humane.

When I exclude all of jas's bad analogies, from my deliberations, I find that I am basically on side with believing children should have a choice to, or not to, continue with inhumane medical treatment that may, or may not, make them better.

Having said that, the child in question here, has another medical condition that predisposes just allowing immediate personal choice. And I believe that there must be governmental oversight as to whether, or not, said child can make an truly informed choice. I have worked with FAS children who were more than competant to make such a decision, while others I have worked with would have not any understanding of implications, nor the ability to make such a choice for themselves.


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This certainly is a complex issue. One of the problems I have is that children are often influenced by wanting to please their parents. Did the parents seek out alternative therapies and express a predisposition to go that route?

I can fully appreciate the child's reaction to chemo therapy. He's experienced it and it was wretched. But is he fully aware of what buying a few months versus a few years of life really means?

This case is somewhat reminiscent of that Alberta boy who had a bone sarcoma on his leg and didn't want the traditional surgical approach of amputation. His parents were all for some alternative therapy that didn't require such a life altering treatment.


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I'm starting to think that all this bashing of science in the science forum is not totally unlike all the ignorant men that used to post in the feminism forum. Sorry to go off topic but the derision and suspision of science and medical practitioners I come across here now and again doesn't seem very logical to me.
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Originally posted by angrymonkey:
I'm starting to think that all this bashing of science in the science forum is not totally unlike all the ignorant men that used to post in the feminism forum.
Oh yes, science has been so oppressed, beaten down and downtrodden! How about you take a hike with that line of false positioning and minimizing?!

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I haven't seen one instant of bashing science in this thread nor of medical practitioners. What I have seen is people trying to struggle with a complex ethical issue of which scientific advancements and medical practitioners happen to be too components.

I won't comment on your analogy since I'm sure many others will.


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quote:
Originally posted by jas:
Invasive and horrendous chemical treatment with dubious life-saving results, YES.

Invasive? Yes. Horrendous? I don't know. My father was recently cured of cancer because of chemo - he didn't enjoy the chemo much, but he sure likes being alive. So, I'll have to disagree with you on the "dubious lifesaving results" part.


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quote:
Originally posted by laine lowe:
This certainly is a complex issue. One of the problems I have is that children are often influenced by wanting to please their parents. Did the parents seek out alternative therapies and express a predisposition to go that route?

That's exactly what I wonder too. Whenever I hear of people claiming they're going to try "alternative cures" to cancer, my quack alarm starts beeping.


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Good lord, a triple post from me. I'm sorry, folks.

quote:
Originally posted by angrymonkey:
I'm starting to think that all this bashing of science in the science forum is not totally unlike all the ignorant men that used to post in the feminism forum. Sorry to go off topic but the derision and suspision of science and medical practitioners I come across here now and again doesn't seem very logical to me.

This is the HUMANITIES and science forum, not just the science forum. Humanities include philosophy, ethics, etc. This subject is well within bounds of debate here.


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I wonder how many of the people who think 11-year-olds can give informed consent or refusal to their own medical treatment are among those who believe that 14 year olds are too young to consent to sex?+

These posts of yours, which seem to me to be condoning adult sex with 14 tear olds, are getting rather creepy.

Just what is it with you and the sexuality of teens?

OT - I know a shit load of kids at 14 (me included) who were preyed upon by older men. In their 20's and up, and we sure as fuck were not mature enough to know what we were doing. These men are ADULTS and they preyed upon our youth and immaturity because contarary to what you may believe, 14 year old kids are not mature enough to be with adults sexually.

You would know this if you were a 14 year old girl being constantly leered at and molested by older perverts.


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quote:
Originally posted by laine lowe:
This certainly is a complex issue. One of the problems I have is that children are often influenced by wanting to please their parents. Did the parents seek out alternative therapies and express a predisposition to go that route?

I can fully appreciate the child's reaction to chemo therapy. He's experienced it and it was wretched. But is he fully aware of what buying a few months versus a few years of life really means?

This case is somewhat reminiscent of that Alberta boy who had a bone sarcoma on his leg and didn't want the traditional surgical approach of amputation. His parents were all for some alternative therapy that didn't require such a life altering treatment.


There was a case like this in Saskatchewan. The boy didn't have the amputation, and died. At about the same time, a relative of mine had the same kind of cancer and had her leg amputated. Years later, she is cancer-free and happy to be alive.

I don't find this issue complex at all.


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quote:
Originally posted by Stargazer:
These posts of yours, which seem to me to be condoning adult sex with 14 tear olds, are getting rather creepy.

Just what is it with you and the sexuality of teens?


What, because I oppose the Harperite agenda of criminalizing teenage sex I am some kind of pervert?

Grab a clue.

And stop derailing this thread.


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Originally posted by RosaL:

There was a case like this in Saskatchewan. The boy didn't have the amputation, and died. At about the same time, a relative of mine had the same kind of cancer and had her leg amputated. Years later, she is cancer-free and happy to be alive.

I don't find this issue complex at all.


That's super, RosaL. I'm sure it's also the same for folks who stopped or decided against medical intervention for cancer, and also survived, happily. Those success stories are on both sides of the issue.


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By the way, I do admit to using the term anti-choice in an overly and deliberately provocative way, and I can see that it's hard to use that term generically, given its history.
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Originally posted by jas:
By the way, I do admit to using the term anti-choice in an overly and deliberately provocative way, and I can see that it's hard to use that term generically, given its history.

Thanks for telling us you felt free to exploit our human rights that we women fought for!

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It seems simple enough to me. The boy can have chemotherapy and probably live or drink all the green tea he likes and definitely die. Adults get to make dumb decisions like that for themselves. Kids don't, and adults don't get to make dumb decisions like that for their kids as has been long established in law.
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And in the meantime the authorities take him away from his parents? So he can do the chemo that he doesn't want without the support of his parents - then what? Does he heal in foster care, or in an institution, then get returned to the parents or are they now considered unfit? Is this a case for permanent foster care? What if he doesn't get better, (the odds are only 50% remember)does he ever go home? Or does he now have to die in a hospital or foster care having whatever treatment is deemed necessary. If he lives another two years, or four, or seven, at what point is he allowed to make decisions regarding his own life and health?

I don't think it is that simple.


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The authorities let his parents take him home today because they agreed to let doctors treat him. I don't agree with taking kids away from their parents during traumatic times like this, but if it was the only way to get the parents to bring him for treatment, then I think the one or two days in CAS custody was probably worth it. They only appear to have kept the child long enough to get it through to the parents that they can't disobey the order to treat him.
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I know Michelle. What I was asking is what would happen if the parents had not complied. Doug had suggested that the solution was simple and I was questioning how that could be so.

Edited cuz I hit the post button too soon.

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I do not believe it is that simple, nor do I believe it is correct, in every case, to have the state intercede and state that every child has to have chemo therapy, or other inhumane treatments, if they do not want to.

My granddaughter, at age 11, would have more than enough understanding and mental capacity to make such a personal choice that confronts this boy and his family. Though that state of being is not constant for all children that age.

If it was her making that decision, I would fully support her and her right to do so...


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I don't think I could allow my 12 year old to turn down treatment if I honestly believed that it may save her life. But of course I can't say as I have never been in that situation. I do know that once kids are taken from their parents "for cause", and are in the system, it's really hard to restore the family.

But I have sat by and watched someone very close to me suffer through the side effects of chemotherapy and it was truly terrible. The fatigue, depression, pain, nausea, hair loss, numbness...she used to joke that battling cancer was a cakewalk compared to battling chemo.

It didn't cure her either.


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quote:
Originally posted by Polly Brandybuck:
And in the meantime the authorities take him away from his parents? So he can do the chemo that he doesn't want without the support of his parents - then what?

Nobody was taking the kid anywhere. Legally, the CAS have to get custody so they can order the treatment. If the CAS and the hospital didn't let the parents visit, it was probably because they thought they'd interfere. That's unfortunate but not unrealistic.


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Originally posted by Michelle:
I don't agree with taking kids away from their parents during traumatic times like this, but if it was the only way to get the parents to bring him for treatment, then I think the one or two days in CAS custody was probably worth it.

Great. We'll remember this for the next case: Traumatize the child and family into submission to established medical authority.


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What this issue is also about, is the protectionist medical establishment asserting its hegemony in health care. To the point, in this case, where a child can be forced against his will to undergo questionable treatment.

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quote:
Originally posted by jas:

That's super, RosaL. I'm sure it's also the same for folks who stopped or decided against medical intervention for cancer, and also survived, happily. Those success stories are on both sides of the issue.


Unfortunately, I don't think there are nearly as many on one side as on the other.

I was irked by the rank stupidity in the Saskatchewan case and the needless loss of life (especially since my mother was dying of cancer at the time - cancer that was beyond treatment).

I think this case is more complicated than the "Saskatchewan amputation case". It seems to me that when the probabilities of survival get sufficiently low, then matters do become complicated. But when the probability of survival (with chemo) is 50% and the child is young, then I think society has an obligation to support the real possibility of life for that child and that obligation takes precedence over both childish judgment and "parental rights".


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quote:
Originally posted by RosaL:
needless loss of life

I'm not familiar with that particular case, but I do question the assumption in that phrase. That life is always preferable to death. Why?

I accept that few people want to die (myself included), but in some cases, we might prefer to describe certain medical interventions as a needless avoidance of death. Or perhaps, needless assumption, and therefore avoidance, of death.

I would love to see us as a society move beyond this immature trepidation around death and dying, and begin to incorporate this natural fact of life into our view of health and living, as well as our health as a species and as creatures on this planet.


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quote:
Originally posted by M. Spector:
Guess what?

Children are not the private property of their parents, to do with as they wish without consequences.

We have something called child welfare laws.

If parents persist in making bad decisions about the welfare of a child, the latter may be declared a child in need of protection, and the state steps in, usually in the form of its delegated Children's Aid Society, and subject to the direction of the courts.

You have a problem with that?


The Daily Show on April 29th on the topic of the failure of abstinence only education.

Jon Stewart “But I am still not convinced. Give me one solid reason why we should not switch over to a more scientific approach?”

Clip of Rep John Duncan ( R ) Tennessee – “It seems um rather elitist to me for ah people who have degrees in this field to feel that they – because they have studied it – know better than the parents.”

Jon Steward “And I’m tired of these elitist airline pilots with their locked doors and ability to fly planes….. I think I know how to fly my own children through the air.”

Clip of Sen. Sam Brownback ( R ) Kansas – “The current culture teaches against what we try to teach in the Brownback family.”

Jon Stewart – “Yes in the Brownback family we teach that boys have a “God stick” and girls have a “shame cave” and then we never speak of it again.”

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"Mommy! Billy's waving his God stick around again!

And he tried to touch my shame cave!"


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quote:
Originally posted by M. Spector:
...the courts have always been able to step in and overrule the parents in the best interests of the child.
Case in point.

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What a horrifying situation. Thank goodness that boy is getting the help he needs, and it's a crime that he can't get it here, and have it publicly funded.

It's big business here, and if you can't pay it, you can't have it. Psychologists and social workers - and even "counsellors" with no credentials - charge $250 per hour and up to treat children who are traumatized in divorce and custody and access cases. If parents can't afford it? Oh well, tough shit for your kid.

My next question is - will this father be charged with child abuse? He certainly should be!

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Court to delve into a minor's right to refuse treatment
by Kirk Makin
From Tuesday's Globe and Mail
quote:
By the age of 14, a Winnipeg girl known as A.C. felt that she had the right to prevent doctors from running roughshod over her religious beliefs and forcing a blood transfusion on her.

“I will not violate Jehovah God's command to abstain from blood,” she said at the time. “I have dedicated my life to Him. Turning my back on God, who made my life possible, is not a compromise I am willing to make.”

Her plea fell on deaf ears. A.C. was forcibly given a transfusion to replace blood she had lost through Crohn's disease – on Easter Sunday of 2006, no less.

The medical contretemps reaches the Supreme Court of Canada on Tuesday obliging the court to delve into the issue of when a mature minor can refuse medical treatment based on religious views.

The case of A.C. v. Director of Child and Family Services focuses specifically on older minors who are forced to accept treatment, even though they have the mental capacity to make treatment decisions.

On the day the drama began, A.C. had admitted herself to a Winnipeg hospital to receive treatment for Crohn's, a chronic inflammation of the gastrointestinal tract that can cause bleeding from the bowel. Doctors quickly obtained a treatment order from a judge.

In a brief submitted to the Supreme Court, her lawyers – Allan Ludkiewicz and David C. Day – quote the child describing the experience as “painful spiritually, mentally, emotionally and even physically. Having someone else's blood pumped through my veins, stressing my body, caused me to reflect on how my rights over my body could be taken away by a judge who did not care enough to talk with me. … That day, my tears flowed non-stop.”

The legal brief argues that a provision in the Manitoba Child and Family Services Act that authorizes this sort of involuntary medical intervention is out of step with generations of judge-made law and with Charter of Rights guarantees to equality, freedom of religion and life, liberty and security of the person.

In an opposing brief, Manitoba Crown counsel Deborah Carlson and Nathaniel Carnegie maintain that any Charter violation that might exist would be more than justified by the importance of protecting children.



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quote:
Originally posted by M. Spector:
...the courts have always been able to step in and overrule the parents in the best interests of the child.

Case in point.


Not quite sure what this story has to do with the thread. Nor what 'treatment' the boy was being 'denied' in Canada. I guess, rather, just a sensationalistic example from M Spector to perseverate on his position that science, including medicine, and law are pure, disinterested, value-free entities, and therefore, the final authority in all cases on 'best' interests.

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Well, in that case, the boy was brainwashed by his father to hate his mother, and was unwilling to get treatment. The judge, however, ruled that the boy would be forced to get treatment so they could reverse the effects of the parental alienation his father had inflicted on him. So, this was a case of a boy's objections to treatment being overruled by adults.
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