And here I thought this was going to be a thread about the philosophy of Charlie Brown, clock. First frame: Charlie Brown is lying in bed, eyes wide open, and the thought-bubble over his head says, "Why are we here?"
Second frame: Charlie Brown is still staring; thought-bubble says, "Where are we going?"
Third frame: No thought-bubble, but Charlie Brown is still staring wide-eyed out of frame.
Fourth frame: Thought-bubble says, "It is not wise to lie in bed at night asking ourselves questions we cannot answer."
But back to the topic. I'm no expert, but I agree, clock: this was one of those articles you just knew had to come along sooner or later.
It seems to me pretty obvious, with grief as with any other kind of spiritual crisis (probably including depression, addiction, phobias, etc.), that people are too different for one-size-fits-all counselling. Especially in times of stress, some people will find strength in withdrawing, and it's just an extra burden to them to be told they're reacting in a mistaken way.
And with some, it does sort of feel sometimes that ego problems are being stoked by this kind of counselling. How did counselling get so standardized, anyway? People still haven't been.