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Topic: The Criminilization of Sexuality
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21st Century Anarchist
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posted 04 November 2007 07:09 AM
Catchy title, eh?I was wondering what people thought about consent laws both in Canada and the US. If I am not mistaken the age of consent in Canada was recently raised to 16. Although there is some sort of extended age bracket for those under 18 or something. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent - Definition of age of consent etc There have been two recent cases related to age of consent that have garnered wide spread media attention. Unfortunately I do not have links to either of them, however the I recall the general idea of both. Somewhere in the US a 17 year old male and his 15 year old girlfriend engaged in oral sex (she gave him a blow-job). Somehow the parents found out and the kid ended up doing time for statutory rape. Recently his conviction was reduced to a less serious crime and he was released with time served (a couple of years). Somewhere in utah the leader of a religious sect that practices polygamy was involved in coercing an underage girl into an arranged, polygamous marriage with some much older man. He was recently convicted for some crime along the lines of "accessory to statutory rape". In one case the consent laws ended up being a vehicle of sexual repression and the oppression of innocent minors, in the other the consent laws provided redress and closure for a terrible crime. These two events, and others like them, have raised several questions for me. Can a legitimate age of consent be concretely defined or is it a subjective thing? Is the age of consent a band-aid solution to deal with unequal power dynamics that plague adult-youth relationships? Are a 16 year old and a 21 year old capable of engaging in a healthy sexual relationship?
From: Toronto | Registered: Nov 2007
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M. Spector
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posted 03 May 2008 02:14 PM
Age-of-consent legislation died with the last Parliament, but was reintroduced as part of Bill C-2 (the inappropriately named Tackling of Violent Crime Act) and came into force on May 1.The age of consent is now 16, not 14. quote: ...many youth advocates say that by focusing on age, the new law will confuse teens, make their sexual activities more clandestine and expose them to other risks, including abuse, early pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. "When you call it the age of consent, that's misleading to kids, who will think it's not permitted, that it's a crime to be sexually active before the age of 16," says Martha Mackinnon, the executive director of Justice for Children and Youth, a Toronto legal aid clinic serving low-income youth. "A huge concern is that kids won't seek medical help, won't seek counselling, they won't seek birth control. "They won't go to a drug store and ask for condoms," she says. It is not a crime for youth under 16 to engage in sexual activity, she points out. "In fact, it's so much more technical than that it's hard for people to understand," Ms. Mackinnon says. Among the exemptions, sex between peers under 16 is okay, as long as neither is in a position of authority and they are 12 or older. Likewise, under a "close-in-age" provision, if a person under 16 (and 12 or older) has sex with someone less than five years older, they can be considered to have consented unless the older person is in a position of authority. But in that respect the law has not changed, says Ms. Mackinnon. In the case of, say, a 15- and a 19-year-old, if the 19-year-old is the skating coach, "it would be a crime, as it has always been." "The fact that it's less than five years doesn't make it automatically legal. It just means that it's not automatically illegal." Another area of concern for critics is that it remains illegal for anyone under 18 to participate in anal intercourse - critics say this targets gay male teenagers - even though the law has been struck down as unconstitutional by many provincial courts of appeal.
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Ghislaine
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posted 06 May 2008 11:15 AM
This law does nothing at all in regards to teens having sex with each other. It is meant to keep people more than 5 years older than 14 and 15 yr olds from having sex with them legally. It has nothing to do with and says nothing at all about kids and teens engaging in or having sexual activities with each other. Who supports the right of people over the age of 21 being in legal sexual relationships with 14 and 15 yr olds?????
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Stephen Gordon
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posted 06 May 2008 02:40 PM
Um, yeah. For some people, these are not just hypothetical 'what-ifs'.eta: For a typical 14-year-old, simply being a 21-year-old is enough to put you in a position of trust and authority. [ 06 May 2008: Message edited by: Stephen Gordon ]
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Stephen Gordon
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posted 06 May 2008 03:37 PM
How about if I link to a cool comic?(21/2) + 7 > 14 It's just creepy.
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unionist
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posted 06 May 2008 04:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ghislaine: Who supports the right of people over the age of 21 being in legal sexual relationships with 14 and 15 yr olds?????
This is not a question of who "supports" that. It is a question of who wants to make it an automatic criminal offence. Do you support suicide and abortion, Ghislaine? Do you support anal sex? Do you support children telling their parents to f*** off and die? Well guess what, all these have been punishable - in some cases by death - in legal and/or moral codes in which I grew up. And guess what else - none of them are criminal behaviour any more. So please answer, do you "support" these?
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N.Beltov
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posted 06 May 2008 04:13 PM
That's really hilarious coming from a self-described piñata, Professor. I take it, therefore, that you have NOTHING to say about the difficulties faced by young queers who, faced with the social shunning (or worse) attached to their sexual orientation, choose to start their sexual lives with older, but safer, partners. Arrest them, or their partners anyway. That seems to be your answer. How "progressive". [ 06 May 2008: Message edited by: N.Beltov ]
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Michelle
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posted 06 May 2008 04:46 PM
Yeah, I don't get that either. I mean, I understand the argument that gay 14 and 15 year-olds might turn to adults in their 20's to experiment with since they might not trust people their own age.But if you can understand and appreciate the argument (even if you don't agree with it) that there is an inherent power difference that a straight person aged 21 might have over a straight 14 year-old simply because they're 21 (and therefore might intimidate or impress the 14 year-old with their age, life experience, etc.), surely you could understand how that inherent power difference would be magnified if a 14 year-old felt compelled to date older than his or her age group because of homophobia, and felt that only older people understood him or her, and was scared of being outed to his or her peer group. That much older person would hold even MORE of a position of power due to the much younger person's feelings of dependence on them and fear of being outed to their peers. That's not to say I agree with the legislation, however. Honestly, I do think that a 21 year-old has no business having sex with a 14 year-old, and I do think there is an inherent power relationship there. But I think the interests of the 14 year-old not being afraid to access sexual health services is more important than criminalizing such behaviour on the part of the 21 year-old. [ 06 May 2008: Message edited by: Michelle ]
From: I've got a fever, and the only prescription is more cowbell. | Registered: May 2001
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Timebandit
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posted 06 May 2008 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by M. Spector: You can tell your underage daughter whatever you want about what she can or can't do. That's up to you.But we're not talking parent's rights here, and we're not talking about your specific personal case. That's your own business, not ours. What we are talking about is the criminalizing of consensual sexual activity where there is no relationship of trust, authority, or dependency involved. Maybe you could direct your arguments to that issue, without trying to personalize it to Your Rights As A Mom.
So sorry, lost my mind for a moment and forgot you have no sense of humour. The "right of Mom" comment was a joke, however, as Stephen pointed out, this is a less theoretical question for some of us than it is for others. It's idiotic to expect that a 14 or 15 yr old isn't going to put more faith and trust in someone significantly older than is wise. It can't be an equal relationship. There is too much developmental difference there. So I have no problem with charging a 21 yr old who would take advantage of a 14 yr old sexually. Now, if we're talking about me, personally, any 21 yr old who laid a finger on my 14 yr old daughter (heck, even quite a bit older than 14) had better pray the authorities get to him before I do. And I'm sorry, N. Beltov, that goes for both heterosexual and homosexual orientations. There is an inherent imbalance of power.
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Cueball
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posted 06 May 2008 06:16 PM
Well perhaps I can be of some service here, when I was 20 I slept with a 14 year old. I don't really feel bad about it at all. Nor do I think there is anything odd about younger people seeking out older people to have sex with, as part of their secual experimentation. This was very much her "show" and she was very explicit about losing her virginity to me, and I was very reticent to do it. In fact I demured for the longest time. In fact it was much more about the "losing it" thing than it was about me, as I remember it. She was as they say "precocious". This is not to say that I did not encourage the attraction because I most certainly did, and I was flattered and enjoyed the experience.Does the fact that she was very close to 15 and I close to 21 change the dymanics of the relationship? In fact, as I remember it the difference in age between 14 and 18 was enormous gap in terms of esteem and social power. Grade 6 students look up to grade 7 and 8 students like they are gods, in a way that 20 year olds simply do not look up to 22 years olds. 17 year olds routinely abuse their younger associates, and in fact date rape is fairly common in these age categories. Of course people who are 20 are supposed to be adults... well ok... in some fashion that is truly different than that of a 19 year old? Really? I think a lot of this has to do with development of the individuals involved, and that emotional context simply can not be defined by arbitrary age categories, though obviously there are going to be clear power dynamics when you are dealing with people who are of different emotional stages of development. I am not really sure if this is not really true in almost any human encounter, whatever the reason for the power imbalance, be it age, or social status otherwise aquired through fame or wealth. I think its very difficult to make a kind of definition that says this is bad because there is an "unequal power balance" because this is almost universally true in any relationship. Sex is a highly emotionalizing experience, and people often feel very vulnerable when they are experiencing a serious physical attraction for someone, and this almost alway results in feelings of powerlessness of some kind or another, so I hardly think that the relative imbalance of "power" can be used to determine that some sex is bad. If someone did not look up to the person they were having sex with in some fashion or another, then I'd say that was a pretty weird sexual relationship. Power dynamics can always be exploited of course, but just because they can be, does not mean that they are being exploited. As for my experience, my friend and I went on to be good friends for a ten years, and even now we are occassionally in touch. [ 06 May 2008: Message edited by: Cueball ]
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M. Spector
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posted 06 May 2008 07:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Timebandit: There is an inherent imbalance of power.
Why do you say that? Does age difference automatically (or "inherently") translate into one person having "power" over another? And if so, is it true in all cases? Because the criminal law applies to all without distinction. I think you're talking nonsense. [ 06 May 2008: Message edited by: M. Spector ]
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